As I reflect on my childhood, a pivotal memory that profoundly influenced my present
self is the time I spent with my paternal grandparents while my parents were working.
This time played a significant role in steering me towards a career in nursing.
My grandpa was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis long before I was born and by the
time I was born my grandma has assumed the role as his primary caregiver. During the
time I spent with my grandparents’, I had a strong desire to assist my grandma in any
way possible with my grandpa’s care. I would willingly help her with tasks such as
dressing him, emptying his leg bag, preparing his feeding tube, and cleaning of his
trachea and g-tube. The one task I absolutely couldn’t stand was the deep suctioning of
his trachea, which would always make me gag. My grandma would frequently make the
statement “grandpa’s little nurse” when I would help. I remember feeling a sense of
pride that I was doing something that would help make someone else’s life easier.
Homecare workers would come and assist with care and respite. At even a young age I
saw how their assistance was a welcomed help and provided a level of comfort to my
grandma. Interacting with these homecare workers gave me the desire to extend the
same level of assistance and comfort that they provided to my family.

As parents we have the remarkable opportunity to shape the core memories of our
children.